Saturday, April 5, 2008

HAPPINESS

HOW TO STAY HAPPY ALWAYS:

Throw out nonessential numbers. This includes sage, weight and height. Let the doctors worry about them. That is why you pay them. Keep only cheerful friends. The grouches pull you down. Keep this in mind if you are one of those grouches!
Keep learning. Learn more about the computer, crafts, gardening, whatever. Never let the brain get idle. An idle mind is the devil's workshop. Enjoy the simple things. Laugh often, long and loud. Laugh until you gasp for breath. Have a walk, jogging any activity which gives you entertainment. And if you have a friend who makes you laugh, spend lots and lots of time with him or her!
The tears happen. Endure, grieve, and move on. The only person, who is with us for our entire life, is our self. LIVE while you are alive. Surround yourself with what you love whether its family, friends, pets, music, plants, and hobbies, whatever. Your home is your refuge.
Cherish your health. If it is good, preserve it. If it is unstable, improve it. If it is beyond what you can improve, get help for betterment from doctors.
Don't take guilt trips. Take a trip to the mall, cinema, garden, amusement park even to any place of your choice, but not to where the guilt is.
Tell the people you love, that you love them, at every opportunity. If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies, Succeed anyway. If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you, Be honest and Frank Any way. If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous BUT BE HAPPY ANY WAY.

Friday, April 4, 2008

LOVE VS. FAITH


Loving from a distance is never easy,when you are living so very far apart. But each mile that separates two people who truly care is joined together with the love each feels in their heart. The loneliness you feel when you are not togethercan eat away at you deep in side. When you miss the one who you want to share your life with and they are not able to be by your side. Have trust in each other's feelings, and believe that they do feel the same way as you. When you cannot be with one another, so easy it is to doubt whether their love is really true. Need to keep your faith that you have in each other, and never let go of your trust. Sometimes that is not so easy to do, but for your peace of mind, it really is a must.


Think of one another's emotional needs, so the other always knows that you do care. Make the most of the time that you can have together,and open your hearts and share. Respect one another will sometimes need some space, but it doesn't mean they don't want you around. We all need some time on our own at times, never meaning we no longer need the love we have found. Do not let the seeds of jealousy, begin growing deep inside your heart. Because if you let this happen without good cause,your relationship will surely be doomed to fall apart. Be honest and open with how you are feeling, and never lead the other one on.It is unfair to play on another person's feelings,and then turn around one day, and be gone.


Never give up on your love, and hold on to what you are feeling in your heart. For a love that is sincere, and strong, will be held together, no matter how far you are apart.

Monday, March 31, 2008

FRIENDSHIP

Let us be grateful to the FRIENDS who make us happy, they are the charming gardners who make our SOUL blossom. If you are mad with someone and nobody is there to fix the situation, you fix it. May be today, that person still want to be your friend. And if you do not, tomorrow can be too late. If you need a hug of a friend, ask for it. May be they need it more than you do. And if you don't ask for it today, tomorrow can be too late. If you really have friends whom you appreciate, tell them. May be they appreciate you as well. If you don't and they leave or go far away today, tomorrow can be too late.
A clsoe friend is a companion for life. The sweetest of joys and loveliest of flowers, the melodiest of songs cannot be compared to the beauty and specialness of the Friendship. Friend is everything but not an enemy. He stays faithful in times of dier need. The friend is a person who come along, becomes your everything and stays in your life for ever. Whenever needed, a friend is found standing beside the other with warmth and support. Friends do the things the way they like, with no complaints or fights, by just staying at each others' side. Friendship is smiles, conversation, honesty and patience. People meet by chance and they turn into friends, keeping close to each other and the friendship grow more and more with the passing of the time. Fragnance of the flower of the true friendship never go away, its a promise made for ever. Friendship brings happiness to the heart and mind and makes every dreams come alive and true.
So come on, stand up and look around, you will definately find a few true friends around you.

Tuesday, March 25, 2008

First I was dying to finish my high school life and start college. And then I was dying to finish my college and start work. Then I was dying to marry and have children. Then I was dying for my children to grow old enough so that I could go back to work. But then I was dying to retire. And Now I am dying. And suddenly I realized I forgot to live. Please don’t let this happen to you. Appreciate your current situation and enjoy each day. Is this the way the life is to be lived. I hope no. Other than doing just such routine work which every human being does, one has to live life in such a way that other people or the generations coming next should always remember the person who live their lives successfully. Life is not only to die for growing up the children and wait for retirement but the children should be grown up in such a manner that wherever and whenever they enter into the whole world, they must feel proud of themselves and also about their parents or wards who have grown them in such a beautiful, strong way to face each phase of life or can face any good or worse situation of the life. You are not only to live your own life but you are here to do many a good things and important works throughout your life time. One good work done ever is not a full point of your journey, its always a coma and you are still to do so many similar or better works for the society or the entire human being.
After a journey of your life, when you are near to the finish point, you should not feel that OH! I am nearing my journey of life and I forgot to live. One should be very positive, helping, caring, loving. During all your process of doing so many good or bad things, its very important that YOU are living for yourself too, enjoying all the work done by you and one very very important thing - YOU should not be ashamed of yourself.

LIFE - LIVE IT

First I was dying to finish my high school life and start college. And then I was dying to finish my college and start work. Then I was dying to marry and have children. Then I was dying for my children to grow old enough so that I could go back to work. But then I was dying to retire. And Now I am dying. And suddenly I realized I forgot to live. Please don’t let this happen to you. Appreciate your current situation and enjoy each day. Is this the way the life is to be lived. I hope no. Other than doing just such routine work which every human being does, one has to live life in such a way that other people or the generations coming next should always remember the person who live their lives successfully. Life is not only to die for growing up the children and wait for retirement but the children should be grown up in such a manner that wherever and whenever they enter into the whole world, they must feel proud of themselves and also about their parents or wards who have grown them in such a beautiful, strong way to face each phase of life or can face any good or worse situation of the life. You are not only to live your own life but you are here to do many a good things and important works throughout your life time. One good work done ever is not a full point of your journey, its always a coma and you are still to do so many similar or better works for the society or the entire human being.
After a journey of your life, when you are near to the finish point, you should not feel that OH! I am nearing my journey of life and I forgot to live. One should be very positive, helping, caring, loving. During all your process of doing so many good or bad things, its very important that YOU are living for yourself too, enjoying all the work done by you and one very very important thing - YOU should not be ashamed of yourself.